HomoSexuality.

-- Y O U cant tell M E who to love .

So i just finished watching this tyra episode about homo sexuality, and i must say im fuckin HEATED. There are so many things going through my mind at once i dont even know where to start .

Choice : Being Gay is NOT a choice , its who you are. You dont wake up one morning and say "heyy you kno what i think im going to be gay , i want people to call me names and try to make me miserable " , you dont do that. No one wants to deal with that pain or tht heartache . It is who you are , you cant change who you are. Just Like you cant change what you are. Just like you cant change the color of your skin . & thats one thing i think we should all understand. We are who we are .

Church : Alot of the time when ppl are trying to defend their belief AGAINST homosexuality they use church & the bible as an excuse. I think its ridiculous , the bible says all types of things . They say tht God doesnt want people to be gay , well you know what i grew up on the belief tht god wants us all to be happy as long as were doing no harm to others. Who are we hurting if were loving someone of the same sex? How are we hurting anyone ? like AT ALL. idont see it . God says be kind to your neighbor , dont enflict pain on others, God says support eachother, Love eachother . So why is it doesnt apply if im gay? If im gay that means you cant support me , or Love me -why is that ?

Acceptance : Growing up were told we need to learn to make our own decisions , our own choices, live our own lives. We are told to be happy , & successful , & l i v e . So if i decide that a woman is who makes me happy , a woman is who gives me butterflies , who makes me blush , who warms my heart, how can you tell me thats wrong? how can you tell me its wrong to be happy? youre telling me its wrong to love. Youre telling me im only supposed to be with a person of the opposite sex , what if a man isnt who makes me happy , or makes me blush or gives me butterflies. am i supposed to be miserable for the rest of my life because of YOUR beliefs? . you cant control what you feel . & the only way to be truely happy is to accept who/what you are , & be proud of it. You dont have to accept a gay persons preference but you damn sure will respect it . because its THEIR choice for THEM . If we dont accept eachother for who we are , then whats wrong with the world were living in ?